I just bought a book recently and I've been reading it these few days. The title of this book is "Introducing NLP". NLP stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming. I'm not going to talk about what NLP is. This book helped me understand and appreciate the complexity of human thoughts.
The way we think involves a much more complex processing than we thought. This complexity and the way emotions or solutions derived fascinates me. One small difference in what we believe or experience has an effect on the outcome of our thoughts. What you thought is the same does not come out the same everytime. Emotions caused by the same event may not be the same for everyone. There are a variety of reasonings.
If we can understand the general concept of the human thoughts, we can do wonders with every person's performance. The only thing is, we won't be able to find out what everyone has experienced. So, personal change most of the time is still up to oneself, others can only influence.
